Tuesday, May 10, 2011

House hunting...


Well house hunting has not turned out how I thought it would go – but then again does life?? :-) In answer to some of your questions, I’ve decided home is where my lovely boys are and we can live a sustainable life wherever we end up settling. It’s not about size, space or location so much as what we want to do and how we want to live our lives.

Unfortunately we were outbid on the lovely cottage we found and so far everything else has ended up having structural issues or been far too moldy.  But I think property ebbs and floes…before we sold our house I saw plenty we could buy. Of course, now we can, there’s not too much around LOL.


So for now I’m content dreaming – looking at back issues of Country Living, being inspired by fabrics and colours and seasons as I picture how our new house will look, feeling the crafty urge to create new things to add to our current transitional living spaces as well as make a new home.


As this sticker says - enjoy the journey. I was in such a rush to buy our next house that I've just stressed my poor little brain out. So for now I'm making time for peace, laughter and joy in the process, however long it might take.

Monday, May 9, 2011

The Perils of Soy

I’ll be the first to say that we are not avid fans of soy. Primarily because Little B is allergic to soy and subsequently so am I. But as our journey of soy allergy has grown, my knowledge and shock at the perils of soy have grown. Both of us bleed internally from soy which is shocking in itself but I find it more shocking about where you find soy in food.

Have you every stopped to think what soy is in? The most obvious things probably come to mind – soy milk, tofu, soy products like yoghurt and ice cream. Soy is actually an insidious product…soy is quite literally in everything. Soy is in just about all breads, most processed foods, in nearly all chocolates, it can be in cow milk yoghurt, it can be in oils, its in pasta sauce, it contaminates most nut mixes (biodynamic or mainstream). But here’s where it gets tricky – soy is in all mainstream meats (its used heavily in grain feeds), it’s used in many organic meats (namely chicken, and pork).  But I was shocked to hear from two different dietitians recently that there are no longer any soy free chickens in Australia.

We used to think that Little B was allergic to eggs until we found out that if a chicken eats soy grain then its in their eggs. There are no retail soy free eggs in Australia (so unless you have your own chickens and feed them soy free grain, eggs are out). All farmed fish in Australia is fed soy meal (think salmon). Many canned fish contains soy contamination. Soy is also in many pelletized fertilisers which you then put onto your vegie garden or to feed your fruit trees.

It was originally invented for cardboard, but soy is now a filler that manufacturers fling into just about everything these days. Because it is cheap!!  Not nutritious, not beneficial….they key word here is because it is cheap!

Hmm with so much hidden soy in food how much is too much?? Nobody knows – the typical catch cry is but Asian cultures have eaten soy forever….but most studies have said that Asians traditionally consume about 1 serve of soy per day, but even if that was 3 times a day, what do people in Western cultures actually consume - directly and indirectly?? Lets say you drink 2 glasses of soy milk per day, but then you have some eggs on toast for breakfast, followed by a chicken sandwich for lunch and some chocolate or a yoghurt and maybe a lamb stew or a pasta for dinner – how many serves of soy is it now??

What about the effects of soy long term?? I was interested to find out that soy is a goitrogen which means it affects your thyroid . I have met 6 women in the past 9 months who all have thyroid problems that their doctors attribute to their intake of soy milk. Their thyroid problems have improved greatly from the removal of soy products from their diet.

Further reading and you see that soy is an endocrine disrupter much like BPA.  There is now rising infertility in the world as well as early puberty for females. Is this a case of too much soy, too much oestrogen, too early in life? Dr Mercola believes that children are at increased risk for prostate and breast cancer, early puberty, endometriosis and infertility, irregular and painful menstrual periods if they are given soy formula or soy milk.

Others like Retha Newbold, a developmental biologist at the National Institute of Environmental Health Sciences believe feeding a child soy is never a good thing. Obviously it’s never been a good thing is this household but maybe its not a good thing in most households??

Hmmm I’m not one to judge but the more I find out about soy (especially my newest knowledge about soy in meat) has opened my eyes amazingly. I’m lucky that I then found a two small farmers who raise their lambs and beef biodynamically – they eat grass and only grass (with a few bits of seaweed thrown in). But how long before we are manufactured out of the food chain? How long before everything contains soy?

Saturday, May 7, 2011

this saturday i'm grateful for hot soup


It's been a long week, and I'm so happy its finally the weekend. So today I'm grateful for:

* hot soup - it's been a cold day and Little B has the latest kindy cold, so garlicky lentil soup with fresh rolls winds hands down :-)

* recycled magazines - dropped in to give me something to read as I nurse monkey boy with his fever

* crafty goodness from the library - our lovely librarian gave us some Mothers Day crafty goodies yesterday which has cheered up Little B up in his good moments. Nothing like colouring in paper flowers to make a bouquet for Granny B.

Drop in to Maxabella loves for more grateful goodies...

Thursday, May 5, 2011

Oscar's Lunchbox

I came across the most fabulous book yesterday. Oscar's Lunchbox by Pam Houssenloge is a book written especially for children who have food allergies or intolerances (by a mum who has a child with food allergies and intolerances). Most books you find are targeted at kids with nut allergies and / or anaphylaxis, which doesn’t apply in our situation (not that you’d want a picture book about GI bleeding LOL). So it’s great to find a kids book that talks about different food intolerances specifically in easy fun terms (Little B is intolerant to salicylates which means most fruit and vegies).

Reading books to Little B is always hit when either he or we want him to understand something. I used On Your Potty, Little Rabbit by Kathleen Amant to help with toilet training and believe it’s one of the key things that worked for us. I also used Kathleen Amant's book about brushing teeth when Little B didnt like brushing his teeth. Repetition reading helps normalize things.

Little B is at the age where he really notices food differences and he feels left out or different because of his multiple food allergies and his food intolerances. So this book couldn’t come at  a more opportune time plus it talks a lot about treating your body like a race car and putting the right fuel in!! It really couldn't be more appealing for a 4 year old boy :-)

Monday, May 2, 2011

Gumboots in January??

You know I always think there's something wrong when you cant find gumboots in May. I'm told we missed 'the season' to buy gumboots....errmmm isnt the season for gumboots winter?? I know - I'm a crazy woman.

But we did have success for rubber gumboots finally. Last year, Target had lots of rubber gumboots as did Cotton On Kids. This year I found some PVC free gumboots online. 

And a day wouldnt be complete without a good kick in the leaves and a few games of soccer :-)

Saturday, April 30, 2011

this saturday i'm grateful for sailing boats

We have had the best weather in Melbourne this week. Gorgeous sunny mild days :-) So this Saturday I'm grateful for:


* sailing boats - boys and their toys on a beautiful sunny afternoon

* not living next door - a HUGE tree limb fell into their front yard with an almighty crash - freaky!!

* great books - You need to read The Other Life by Ellen Meister - I couldnt put it down. If you like The Time Traveller's Wife, this is sort of like it but more about mothers and daughters. I loved it!!

Check out Maxabella loves for some cheerfulness to end your day :-)

Friday, April 29, 2011

{this moment}

{this moment} - A Friday ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.  Inspired by soulemama